D.I.R.T.

We had one of the best messages at church yesterday. It would be too much to cover in one post. But I think one of the things that stood out most to me was...

D.I.R.T.

Don't

Ignore

Relational

Tensions

I think that is one of the biggest ways that relationships fail. Be it friendships, marriage, in the workplace, anywhere.
When we ignore the friction, problems, or tension that may be going on...no matter how big...or how small that is when the problems arise. The enemy LOVES to weasel his way into our relationships with even the smallest of things and we may think "Oh, it's no big deal". But Pastor Sam pointed out in his series "Knock Knock" how even though we as christians may have closed the door to the "big things" that may make us stumble as christians...the things everyone considers "BAD"...there are little "doggie doors" in our big closed door...where little things can creep in. Maybe it's those little things we struggle with like little white lies, or having inappropriate thoughts, or tearing people down, whatever it is! It's these little things...that aren't BIG things that other people may see. But if we're not careful, they can creep into our relationships and cause big problems. Pastor used this illustration...he brought in this cute little puppy dog...all cute and innocent...but if we don't get rid of these little "problem areas"...it can turn into big old mean vicious Kujo of a dog! When we ignore these little things in our relationships, we grow further and further apart. We argue more. Tempers flare. We distance ourself from each other. Friendships...marriages...workplace...etc.
We can't ignore these relational tensions..."D.I.R.T." When we ignore them, relationships fall apart.

I loved the scriptures he used:

Philippians 3:2 (New International Version)

2Watch out for those dogs, those men who do evil, those mutilators of the flesh.


Galatians 5:19-23 (New International Version)

19The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; 20idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions 21and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

22But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, 23gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no law.

We need to guard ourself against what's trying to sneak in our "doggie door"...and as Pastor said, "If it means turning your head and quoting a scripture"...whatever! We have to guard our hearts and tackle those relational issues.

D.I.R.T.

Don't

Ignore
Relational

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